So something happened today.
We were putting raft stuff away & I picked up a couple poles & asked one of the girls to put another pole on and I’d put them away. A guy offers to help & I say no I’m fine. He replies with “You can’t carry 3 of them.” So I said “Why not?”
I appreciate the offer of help, but he wasn’t offering help to the guys carrying three poles. As I walked to the shed, no less than three more guys offered to take them, most stopped when I said I was fine but one tried to insist. I refused still but then he’s like, well I’ll help you put them on the rack then. I didn’t need help for gods sake. I had said so. Now I wouldn’t mind, but none of the men were being offered help to carry or put away.
Ugh. Sorry. Excuse my rant but it really pisses me off. If I pick up heavy things it’s because I fucking can, not because I’m waiting for a man to come & help me carry the heavy things. If I say I’m fine, it’s because I’m fine!
Ok, rant over. I am done. I’ll show em when I get to the gym rotation! 💪